All Rights Reserved. This is not a passive calling for dads and moms. Dad, you are to dedicate yourself and your children to learning the biblical way of life. By failing to instruct them in God’s commandments, we teach them that God’s word is not the highest authority in our lives. How the indwelling Holy Spirit can open our eyes to the meaning of Scripture and give us peace in our heart about what He is directing us to do. What does ‘train up a child’ really mean? You say, "Well, if all the kids hang out here, they'll ruin my couch, they'll get my rug dirty, they'll eat everything in the refrigerator." Wonderful! . It should be the place where all the other kids want to hang out. And not only that, but you also disrespected your mother. Do you pray for patience...how about the tribulation that leads to patience? The Father was in the Son and did His work through the Son. Your goal is that they make a transition (depending on their maturity) from childhood (obey your father and mother) to adulthood (honor your father and mother). Encouragement, instead, focuses on worth. Your email address will not be published. Similarly, Proverbs 11:5 says, “The righteousness of the blameless keeps his, Consider also Proverbs 14:2, which reads, “Whoever walks in uprightness fears the Lord, but he who is devious in his ways despises him.”, And again, Proverbs 16:17 says, “The highway of the upright turns aside from evil; whoever guards his way preserves his life.”. First, the sarcastic reading requires a more passive approach to parenting that does not account for the verb “train up” (“dedicate”), which expresses conscious intention. To train might be best understood by comparing it to an animal trainer. While Proverbs 22:6 is framed as instruction to parents, the book as a whole gives guidance to the young (Proverbs 1:4), which suggests the proverb actually intends to call straying youth back toward the right way. They may make mistakes, but so have you, so you may have opportunity to share with them how you have learned from your mistakes. Stay Connected with your favorite Ministry Newsletters and Devotionals. He lived it. and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Now, let me clarify an important distinction between praising and encouraging children. Train up a child in the way that he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it. I now question this approach, however, for three reasons. 5. First, when left to themselves, the “young” lack judgment and have hearts filled with foolishness. Jesus practiced what He preached. We know more facts and believe less truth than ever before. I think you spell it T-I-M-E. And not only time, but also we show love when we tell children we love them. But the woman you sassed is not only your mother; she's my wife. If so, why does it sometimes seem to not work? The previous verse declares, “Thorns and snares are in the way of the crooked; whoever guards his soul will keep far from them” (Proverbs 22:5). Two year old defiance looks a lot different than 15 year old defiance. Well, I think that is double-talk to a child. I'm not sure, but I would say we probably had more laughs than the average house due to the joy of the Lord. Let me offer some reflections on it, considering its lasting significance for the church. That is, every youth’s future is filled with possibility, and we as parents must recognize this and direct our child’s paths toward godliness. He said, “I live by the Father” (John 6:57) and “the Father [is] in me, and I in him” (John 10:38). We can learn much about parenting from this obscure, but very powerful story in the Old Testament!!! In addition to your newsletter(s), you will receive email updates and special offers from Oneplace.com. If you are a son or daughter who had parents that worked hard to set positive moral and religious trajectories for your life (though imperfectly), you must not counter this trajectory by foolish decisions today. That means we are to mold into shape by discipline and practice. “Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline drives it far from him” (Proverbs 22:15). Professor, Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. Required fields are marked *. Thus training our children is not just reading Bible stories to them, but rather it is the personal and practical application of God’s WAY OF LIFE that is explained and illustrated in the Bible. Certainly we as parents are always training our kids, even through our passivity. They will also make many good decisions and you will experience the truth of Proverbs 23:24; “The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice”. You might want to adapt the following suggestions to your own personal situation. H�]����"s1��Qf�Š�ħ��^̤V�
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